I like to consider myself to be a very efficient person. I’m an expert at multi-tasking and consistently juggle many activities at once. Sometimes I find a couple two or three dozen Windows open on my computer all at once and I work efficiently! Efficiency is doing things right! However, Effectiveness is doing the right things. One can be so busy being efficient … that they fail to be effective.
Effectiveness is directly related to passion. What is your passion? What condition, situation or cause drives you to sadness or anger? What breaks your heart? What drives you to want change? Bill Hybels, Senior Pastor at Willow Creek Church, defines that one thing in your life as your “Popeye moment” … that moment when you say to yourself, “I can’t stands it no more!!!” I can recall that Popeye always did things right. He was quite an efficient sailor. He also puts up with a lot of abuse from Brutus UNTIL Popeye’s own “Popeye Moment.” The sailor man has had enough when he says, “I can’t stands it no more.” Then, he eats his spinach, grows huge muscles, and proceeds to let Brutus have it with both anchors. And, he wins the heart of Olive Oil … toot, toot!!! I’d say he became effective!
There are many world issues that can break our hearts: child abuse, animal abuse, environmental issues, human trafficking political issues, senior citizens, 3rd world plights, homelessness, Alzheimer Disease, cancer, heart disease, mental illness or a plethora of other diseases.
In my own life, the pain resulting from addiction and co-dependency in my own family was my “I can’t stands it no more” moment. I went from being busy as an efficient real estate broker to being effective at Faith Farm Ministries. I use ALL of my experience and talents that I have accumulated throughout my long career and apply it to my passion for helping people overcome life controlling issues so that they, too, may live effectively. I can honestly say that I LOVE my work. It is not like work at all when you love what you do.
Faith Farm Ministries is a 64 year old, free, long term, residential drug and alcohol recovery program for men and women. Three locations provide an intense, college accredited recovery curriculum, a comprehensive work training program, spiritual guidance and counseling.
I am also blessed to lead a Celebrate Recovery group at Faith Farm in Boynton Beach on Friday nights. This is a 12 Step program that is accessible to the students as well as their families, alumni of Faith Farm, and the community members that have struggles with any life controlling issues.
My passion for what I do translates into my effectiveness for those I serve. Passion allows your life to take on meaning, purpose and effectiveness. I used to be very efficient, busy … and unhappy. Today, I have purpose, effectiveness, joy and peace that surpasses my understanding.
What’s your “Popeye Moment?”